GREAT Report

I am preparing a blog post on Maggie's 2nd month anniversary of Gotcha Day (last Sunday), but I wanted to quickly report (while I have a free moment to myself!) that we had an INCREDIBLE report at the International Adoption Clinic today.  First Maggie had her hearing tested.  Although she still has some fluid on her left ear, her hearing was perfect.  We will have an ear re-check with our pediatrician in a month to make sure that the fluid has resolved.  If it does not resolve on its own, we may have to get tubes just to make sure the fluid does not hinder hear hearing in the future.  Nothing is infected though and she is not in pain.

Next, we went to our follow-up with the International Adoption team.  I was anxious (and didn't sleep well) at getting the results of all the blood work.  So many "what ifs" floated through my brain (most of them irrational) but I just needed to hear from an American doctor that all was okay.  And not only was the news that all was OKAY - the news was that Maggie is doing INCREDIBLY WELL!  We first met with the occupational therapist who literally was laughing at how well Maggie was doing.  She said that there were not many children who she has seen in the clinic who are where Maggie is after 2 months home.  Not only did she meet all the goals for a 9-12 month old, but she met a lot of goals for a 12-18 month old (such as putting a cube into the square hole, climbing stairs, etc.)  The OT kept on saying that "good" for these kids is being 6 months behind - that such a delay is expected - and she could not believe that Maggie was not delayed at all.  I was beaming!!!

Then the doctor came in.  Maggie has gained a pound and a half in the past two months home - bringing her to a healthy weight of 18 1/2 pounds!   This puts her in about the 17th% - up from the 5th% where she measured on December 5.  She did not measure length or head circumference - those measurements will be take at her 6 months check-up since that growth is not as big.  And then what I had been waiting to hear - ALL HER BLOODWORK WAS PERFECT!!!!  Nothing abnormal AT ALL.  And she received every shot that she should have (and that was recorded by the orphanage).  The doctor kept on saying how wonderful this was and definitely out of the ordinary from her experience.

All I know is that Maggie is a miracle.  I am convinced that God placed angels around her and in her life while she waited on us.  The orphanage is part of her story and will always be, but she was protected, cared for, and loved by her caretakers.  She is attaching to us so well, and I cannot take any of the credit for it.  Yes, I am working at it and have done everything the experts have told us to do, but God's hand is ALL OVER HER.  She is destined for something so amazing.  I just can't wait to sit back and watch Him work in her life!!!  Praise God!!!!!!

New Years at Grey Rocks

We had a great New Years at Grey Rocks.  We headed down on Thursday after Christmas.  I took all the kids because Ted had to work.  He didn't make it down until Friday.  Papa was down there when we arrived and he was a huge help (as always) while I unpacked.  I had a bunch of stuff since we were staying until the following Wednesday.  And I forgot what it is like to travel with a 1 year old again!  So much stuff!  Cher Cher got down there Thursday night and my sisters and their families arrived on Friday.  It was the first time for then to meet Maggie and I think that everyone fell in love with her the way we are!  I was a bit worried that she would get really overwhelmed with all the cousins, but she did really well.  I was impressed!

All the cousins got along so well.  Tripp and Ann Park were two peas in a pod the whole week.  They played just about every game we have down there and I think that the "Go Fish" cards have never been used so much!  Sam got along really well with Hope.  They are 6 weeks apart and I loved seeing them play.  Louise was her usual entertaining self (pretending to be animals, playing dress up, etc.) and Ashton is a total joy to be around.  Liam is just a chilled out kid who sleeps more than I have ever seen and is probably bigger than any 11 months old I have ever seen either.  Seriously, he is the size of a 2 year old!!  And poor Billy wasn't feeling well much of the week, but he hung in there!!

mid- Go Fish game!

Sam and Louise (notice Hope growling in the background!)

Maggie and Liam

playing at the barn

Sam giving us a show!

being pulled in the wagon - so fun!!!

Precious Ashton

buddies

fun swinging!

happy happy Sam

And the best part of the week?  Ted killed a 205 pound, 10 point deer!  It was the biggest at Grey Rocks this year and definitely the biggest deer I had ever seen.  Ward was with him (they had been out probably 3 days in a row) and he is still talking about it!

Ward in his camo!

Maggie loved the horses, and said her first word while we were there  - "dog"!  She is obsessed with dogs and when we go on walks (the few days it has not been raining in the past 2 weeks) she goes crazy whenever she sees one.  She does have some confusion as she is calling our cat "dog" but we can work that out later!  She is so proud of herself!!

meeting her first horse!

loving it!!

playing at the barn

so fun!!

Christmas Catch Up

We had an amazing Christmas as a family of 6.  We celebrated with mom and dad the weekend before Christmas since they spent Christmas with Kit and her family in Tennessee.  The kids loved getting their presents and mom and dad nailed it, as usual!

The entire set of Star Wars on Blue Ray!!

Watch out!

our budding rockstar!

fun game for Ann Park!

another soldier

Ann Park loves boxes!!

Daddy and Maggie

Maggie getting into the action!

Christmas Eve we went to Mass at our church at 4:00 with Grandmom.  We then all headed home for a nice dinner (cooked by Ted!) and some fun with Grandmom, who spent the night with us.  And we were all so excited to see that SANTA CAME, even though we had been threatening coal and ashes due to bad behavior!!  The kids were so excited and it was like pulling teeth to get them toe wait until after 6 AM to go downstairs!  ALthough there was still some usual CHristmas chaos, this year was much better than in years past.  The kids actually played with their toys and wasn't going from one thing to the next.  I loved watching their excitement and seeing what they wanted to play with first.  For lunch we went over to Uncle Bill and Aunt Barbara's house so I could see a little bit of my family!  We loved hanging out with them and Hank, who is such a kid at heart, was great with my older three.  Maggie was her usual wonderful self and loved meeting more of her family!

Sam showing me all his loot!

Ann Park is so happy with her presents from Santa!

Loving the Alpine Crazy Creek Chair

Batman Sam (with guns, of course!)

Maggie got into the action too and loved her toys!

My smiling girl!

She loved playing in all the tissue paper!

and eating ribbons

standing up all by herself and so pleased!

who could resist that smile??

Ann Park in her matching American Girl outfit all ready to go to Uncle Bill's house!

Good News

This morning Maggie had an appointment with a pediatric eye doctor at Children's Hospital.  The International Adoption Clinic recommends this appointment (as well as a hearing test) since we don't have any information about her biological background.  It is good just to check it out to make sure that there is nothing going on.  There is also a way for the eye doctor to potentially tell whether or not there was alcohol abuse on the part of the biological mother.  (Something in the retina is either longer or shorter - I can't remember.)

So with all this I knew that today was an important appointment.  I was anxious to see what Dr. Cogen would see inside my precious baby's big brown eyes.  Would we learn that her mother abused alcohol while she was pregnant?  Of course this really wouldn't change anything - I love her no matter what and am prepared to help Maggie in every way she needs.  But it is a piece of the puzzle and I was concerned.

We arrived at 7:45 on a cold, cold and very rainy morning.  We had to wait for a bit (so frustrating even when you get the first appointment of the day!) and then they called her back for the initial intake questions and to dilate her eyes.  To say that she didn't like the eye drops is an understatement!!  But it made me smile to see her fighting the nurse - it showed some sort of normalcy that we have not seen at a doctor's appointment.  She has been so passive with people poking and prodding her that it just hurts my heart at what happened in those 11 months before she was ours.  But this morning she fought - and I loved it!

We then had to wait about 45 minutes for the drops to take effect.  At first it was fine but then as things started to get a little blurry for her, she got fussy.  And there were a lot of people in the waiting room!  I ended up putting her in the stroller and she calmed down with the movement.  We were called back right in time, and she was fascinated by Dr. Cogen and all his toys.  She cooperated pretty well and then I got the best news ever --- Dr. Cogen gave her a gleaming report!  Perfect vision.  Perfect eyes.  Perfect everything.  AND although he was "looking hard" (his words) he did not see any signs of alcohol abuse in her eyes!!!!   He told me that it was the absolute best report he could give any child.  I beamed.  I think that I got a few tears in my eyes.  God has been protecting this baby ever since she was formed in her mother's womb.  Of course this isn't 100% and of course we know we will still have to deal with a lot of other issues (and are prepared to) but this was just really good news!!

Praise be to God!

I know, I know

I know that it has been FOREVER since I have posted and for those of you who check the blog regularly, I apologize!  Life with 4 kids is crazy - especially considering we had croup and strep, Christmas, New Years, Maggie's baptism, and lots and lots of doctor appointments!!  But I am going to play catch-up and have TONS of pictures to post.  For now, enjoy some recent shots of Maggie.  She is growing like a weed and I think that she will be walking before the month is out.  She has taken a few steps here and there and is very determined.

Standing on her own!

pushing the cart!

I took this today after the doctor's appointment.  Her hair is crazy but you can see how much it has grown.  I can't wait to get some bows in her hair!!

She is always smiling!!

Ward is her favorite!!!